“When we open our heart to receive, we give
others the opportunity to give.”
– Paula Lacobara –
ARE YOU READY TO RECEIVE EVERYTHING YOU TRULY DESIRE?
Hello gorgeous woman, I see you. I know that within you there’s a deep desire to live a happy life, in balance and harmony with yourself, where you feel loved, valued and deeply connected in relationships with those around you.
You desire to have a business or career that’s fulfilling to your heart, where you feel passionate, creative, and experience an overflow of money and success that’s aligned with your truth.
You want to feel fully confident and worthy of all your desires. To feel free and be open to receiving, knowing and choosing how to live your life…where you want to be, how you want to be and who you want to be with every single day.
This path begins with the Power of Receiving.
Let me guess…you’re ambitious and when you put your mind into something, you make it happen. But for a while now (perhaps for a long time and you haven’t realized it until now), you’ve been feeling stuck, as if there’s something deeper that’s looking to come through you, but no matter how hard you’ve been trying to figure it out, you can’t pinpoint what it is.
Chances are that your desires are greater than the desires of those around you and this makes you feel conflicted inside. You feel a little insecure about whether they can really come true, although deep down you do know that you are destined for something BIG.
There is a voice inside you that has been calling you for a long time… and it will not stop until you answer it.
WOMEN HAVE LEARNED TO WORK HARDER THAN WE NEED TO.
We learned that we need to sacrifice and work hard in order to be loved, valued and deserving of what we want. This is a masculine model of living life and it totally goes against our feminine nature.
The result? We end up exhausted, angry, dissatisfied and unhappy.
Nobody wins.
When a woman connects with her TRUE feminine power, she creates a fulfilling life for herself and others.
But since little girls, most of us have experienced the feminine as weak and powerless. This has been passed down to us from generation to generation.
And this is why today you feel…
Stuck and blocked. Giving others your time, love, money, AND ENERGY, but deflecting or pushing it away when it comes to YOU receiving in return.
Worried that wanting more for your life means that you should feel bad or guilty and that makes you judge and compare yourself with others.
Trapped in a cage and the only way out is to keep pushing and working even harder. But this only leaves you feeling more exhausted and angry with yourself.
Good about giving to others, but you find yourself feeling frustrated and resentful because there never seems to be enough time for you and the things you want to do.
In your closest relationships, you’re afraid to open up and trust. You hold back. It’s very difficult for you to show yourself as you really are and talk about what you are feeling for fear of being judged.
Darling! You don’t have to live like this.
Stop resisting and
Start Receiving
ALL the blessings that the universe has in store for you!
Common Myths About Receiving…
Myth #1
RECEIVING IS PASSIVE
Myth #2
IF I DON’T WORK HARD, I WON’T RECEIVE
Myth #3
ASKING IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS
Myth #4
IF I SAY NO TO WHAT I DON’T WANT,
I WON’T RECEIVE WHAT I DO WANT
It’s SO time to stop blocking and open yourself up to receive everything your heart desires.
How do you stop playing small and start RECEIVING big?
By healing your Good Girl and fully tapping into your
Feminine Power (aka your Wild Woman).
Who is your Good Girl?
She is that part of you that is thoughtful, caring, responsible, and in service of the universe.
Intuitive and miraculous, she can detect the needs of others by sheer instinct
Her heart is filled with endless LOVE and a call to give and share that love with everyone, especially those in need of healing.
BUT, when out-of-balance your Good Girl can quickly fall into its shadow version…
Your Victim…
When the call to love and heal others moves into a need to please and gain approval, you start to give without boundaries, find it hard to say “no,” and feel guilty receiving the abundance you deserve. When we are cut off from receiving (cut off from our Wild Woman) we suffer.
THAT’S when our Bitch comes out…
That part of us that wants to scream. She’s angry and sick of being taken advantage of, and because she’s cut off from her feminine power (her Wild Woman), she taps into toxic masculine energy to get what she wants.
The result?
COMPLETE DISAPPOINTMENT.
The Universe Wants You In Balance
Think of it this way…
Bee’s fly from flower to flower, receiving pollen to make honey. In exchange, they help the flowers pollinate and reproduce. It’s a totally symbiotic relationship. A true win-win!
This natural, energetic flow is exactly what nature intended.
But imagine if the flower suddenly refused to give pollen to a bee. If they said, “Nope, you took too much yesterday, none for you!” Or if the bee felt guilty for taking too much pollen and didn’t even bother flying to any flowers.
The balance would be broken. There would be no flowers OR honey. (And some very hungry bees!)
When you allow yourself to receive, you are also allowing others the opportunity to give.
This is the beauty of receiving – that by truly receiving (not while feeling guilty, shameful or working so hard,) you are giving at the same time!
“People who have difficulty RECEIVING
attract people who have difficulty GIVING.”
This is why it’s so important that we return to the natural flow of receiving!
When you step into this power, you’re not going to become greedy, or selfish. You’ll open up to welcoming in abundance, knowing there’s plenty of pollen to go around. You’ll allow yourself to feel beautiful and surround yourself with beautiful things that attract wealth, joy, and love.
No more holding back, you’ll be free to unapologetically ask for what you want and embrace the flow of receiving. Most importantly, you will feel worthy of all the worldly and spiritual wealth meant for YOU.
This is your Wild Woman.
Don’t be afraid of the term, ‘Wild Woman’. From our culture, we learned that being wild meant being promiscuous and letting loose without control.
This is NOT the Wild Woman. Not even close.
The Wild Woman is the most sacred, instinctual part of ourselves. She’s the most raw and natural essence of our femininity.
She’s who stands up for freedom, allows us to speak our truth, and be unstoppable without losing our inner grace.
The truth is, you are incredibly powerful.
Probably more powerful than you even know.
And you can learn to step back into your Wild Woman, no matter how long it has been.
The fastest way to reconnect with our Wild Woman is by activating our feminine energy, which begins with learning how to receive.
So how do you start to heal your Good Girl and reconnect with your Wild Woman? You start RIGHT HERE with the…
When the call to love and heal others moves into a need to please and gain approval, you start to give without boundaries, find it hard to say “no,” and feel guilty receiving the abundance you deserve. When we are cut off from receiving (cut off from our Wild Woman) we suffer.
Rooted in my Empowered Woman Archetype System™, the Power of Receiving Online Course walks you through the very process I use with my private clients to help them RECEIVE confidently and live in a state of consistent ABUNDANCE and JOY.
In this online course, I’ll help you:
Reconnect back to your authentic self and feel confident to be fully you in every situation in your life. Own your value and your worth so you can claim what’s yours without fear of being seen as greedy or selfish.
Activate your receiving channels so you can feel comfortable receiving (money, gifts, love, attention, support) without guilt
Magnetize and attract rather than push, force or chase after things and end up exhausted and depleted. Claim your feminine presence and bring in loving, supportive, healthy relationships
Awaken your pleasure and sensuality because you know it’s the source of your true abundance.
Trust yourself with money and create a healthy relationship that keeps on flowing to you with ease, grace and love.
Live in a state of flow, openness, joy and excitement rather than anxiety, fear and worry.
Fully trust yourself and others because you know and feel the divine force as your source and supply of abundance and all good things in your life.
Feel worthy of asking not for one but all of your desires AND receive them confidently and gracefully
Sounds wonderful, doesn’t it?
Having a RELATIONSHIP where you feel loved, heard and understood.
Experiencing the FREEDOM to make as much money as you want and without feeling like you have to work SO hard for it.
Feeling APPRECIATED for being yourself without fear of opening up and being judged or criticized.
Creating the BALANCE you crave and feel your life flowing abundantly for YOU.
Before we continue-
I have a story that will blow your
mind and heart right open.
My darling sister, struggled for years with giving, overdoing, exhaustion and scarcity (like oh so many of us). You know how it goes… You can never do enough or be enough. You work so hard and love so deeply and give the world EVERYTHING without getting much back in return. (And when you do receive something back, you feel guilty, selfish, and unworthy!)
I wanted her to be happy. I wanted her to have a richer life. So I told her about the Power of Receiving Course … for years. She didn’t listen. She brushed me off and kept hustling, forcing and pushing, and the day she pushed out her beautiful baby girl (my niece Sofia,) THAT was the day she began to listen.
She finally answered the whisper within, guiding her to build a better life, not just for herself but for her family. She nursed her little one, watched the course, and something deep within her began to shift.
She woke up.
She surrendered.
She desired.
She released.
She claimed what she wanted and among many other gifts that she started to receive, checks out of the blue started turning up to make that reality possible for her.
And most of all, she felt free and unstoppable! She now knows that she can create EVERYTHING she desires.
This power is available to YOU too!
The Power of Receiving Online Course is for women like YOU seeking to release blocks so abundance can flow. It will give you the ability to receive unapologetically, ask for what you want without guilt, and create a life that consistently gives back to YOU.
NOTE: I have spent years developing and refining a program for receiving that worked for me and every woman I coach. This receiving system works with universal laws. It’s a fact. It’s proven to work when you become an active participant (which is what you’ll learn in the course.)
This is why I created it and I’m now ready to share everything I know with YOU in these 7 in-depth modules.
Module 1:
“Opening your channels of receiving”
Set the perfect foundation for you to receive • Learn how to make space to clear unresolved and unfinished things in your life • Fully and freely connect with the energy of receiving
Module 2:
“Connecting with your feminine essence”
This week is all about YOU and how to connect with your feminine side • You will challenge and transform old beliefs about the feminine • Learn about the feminine and masculine energies and how you can utilize them to activate your receiving channels
Module 3:
“Clear limiting blocks that stop your receiving”
Embrace your receiving mindset • Implement new and powerful tools that will clear your receiving blocks instantly • Discover what it truly means to receive and ignite that powerful force within you
Module 4:
“Accessing your true desires”
Learn how to call in your desires fully and unapologetically • We will reveal the secrets to eradicate the “Who am I to receive?” complex forever • Discover how to easily and effortlessly reconnect with your passions, so you can call in all of the desires of your heart
Module 5:
“How to ask unapologetically for what you want”
I’ll take you step by step through how to ask for what you want powerfully and gracefully • Being unapologetic is a way of being and it requires certain skills • Immediately feel the fire igniting within you to go and claim what you know is yours
Module 6:
“Allowing and Appreciation”
Connect with the energy of allowing and appreciation • Explore essential rituals that will support you to keep the ongoing connection to these powerful energies • Easily make these rituals part of your everyday life
Module 7:
“Becoming the channel of receiving”
Learn how to sustain and expand the receiving energy moving forward • Discover what you require in order to set yourself up for success in every receiving experience in your life
Here’s what’s included in the program:
TRAINING VIDEOS
21 TRAINING VIDEOS (with + 8 hours of training) These videos will guide you step by step through the different exercises of each module. You will take off as if we were in a class together! The wonderful thing about these videos is that you can listen to them as many times as you need to make sure you get the most out of these powerful teachings. These videos and all materials are yours for life. ($999 value!)
“CREATING SPACE TO UNAPOLOGETICALLY RECEIVE” PREPARATION GUIDE
That empowers you to clear out old energy and make room for this course and your heart’s desires! (VALUE: $213)
7 TRAINING WORKBOOKS
One workbook for each training video full of tools, exercises, and practices that will open your channels of receiving immediately and that you can use for the rest of your life.
(VALUE: $597)
7 PRE-RECORDED Q&A CALLS (with 5 hours of wisdom)
With Paula and empowered women who have graduated from this course and are living abundantly! Gain a deeper understanding & new insights from their share and wisdom. (VALUE: $597)
Plus, you’ll receive THE TRUE BEAUTY GUIDE absolutely FREE.
This comprehensive guide consists of 5 short meditation audio sessions that will help you tune in with your highest vibration first thing in the morning. It also includes 5 PDF booklets filled with my best kept beauty secrets from the inside out that I gathered throughout my 10 years of experience in the beauty industry. Become the magnet who attracts all of your desires by igniting your true beauty from within. Beauty is power and when you learn how to use it, you can claim powerful and long-lasting feminine success in your business and life. (VALUE: $997)
And, you’ll ALSO receive THE MYTH OF RECEIVING video series
These series will walk you through step by step on how to quickly get unstuck so you can start receiving NOW. You will learn the answers to your most important receiving questions, plus, Paula will take you on her own journey on how she overcame her most difficult blocks and fears. (VALUE: $597)
This powerful, life-changing course is valued at $4,000 and for a limited time I’m giving it to you for this special price of $888! Are you ready to start receiving?
The Power of Receiving Online Course allows you to:
Stop the cycle of people pleasing and overcompensating to the point of depletion, and fill your reserves with self-love.
See receiving as your divine right and not as a selfish act, so you stop dwelling in resentment.
See asking for help as empowering instead of weak, and stop feeling angry, exhausted and drained.
Feel safe in being vulnerable with loved ones and give in a more authentic, fulfilling way.
Set healthy and loving boundaries and create a more empowered, intimate and deeply connected relationship with yourself and those around you.
Elevate your self-worth and unapologetically ask for money in your business and delegate work with complete ease.
Receive gifts, compliments, support, and miracles with JOY because you know you DESERVE them.
I’ve experienced immediate and exciting results from the Power of Receiving Course. I’ve connected with my desire to build my brand as a fashion expert and personality. In connecting with my feminine, I’ve attracted new opportunities like crazy… I’ve started saying yes only to the opportunities that feel good to me (and I connect with emotionally). This included a photo shoot for Redbook magazine one month after taking the course, SO exciting!”
I’ve been receiving tons of insights into how to let go of past blocks, how to change the way I think, how to simply just be more myself and trust the world, how to appreciate pleasure and self-care without guilt, and how to start receiving on a new level. I feel so many big changes coming… It has been wonderful and I don’t want it to end!”
Learn to receive with complete ease.
Sign up to get started NOW!
What do I know about scarcity and shame?
I’m so glad you asked! Hello beautiful, I’m Paula Lacobara, creator of the Empowered Woman Archetype System, a women’s empowerment coach, and your guide on this journey towards receiving joyfully and abundantly without apology!
I know what you’re thinking, “My goodness, she looks like she has it all together!” Yes, I’m standing as an Empowered Woman most days, and yes I’ve helped countless women do the same, but I haven’t always had it “all together.”
In fact, I’ll be very honest with you, learning how to RECEIVE joyfully was one of the biggest challenges of my life.
But as a recovering people-pleaser, I’ve spent so many days in Victim or Bitch mode that at some point I lost count. Most of us loving, caring, giving Good Girls have, haven’t we? Because I was constantly aiming to make everyone happy, I spent so much time pushing away any gifts, compliments, or support sent my way because I was afraid. I didn’t want to take up space, or outshine others. I didn’t want them to feel bad about themselves. I felt guilty that I would look selfish if I focused on myself at all.
Or, if I did receive, I’d push it away or feel so guilty that I’d immediately find a way to give it right back. It was an exhausting cycle. But the reality was that not everyone gives willingly, and when others would fall short I’d grow incredibly angry and resentful. I felt abandoned, disappointed, and alone. I wanted them to pick up the responsibility. I wanted them to SEE ME, THINK OF ME, and GIVE TO ME without my asking.
Basically, I gave them the keys to my happiness.
It wasn’t fair to them, and it definitely wasn’t fair to me.
Honesty, I didn’t even know I was giving my power away…
Finally, I took charge and decided to put an end to the drama and chaos in my life.
While it took a long discovery process, reading hundreds of books, attending many workshops, investing a LOT of money AND time on my personal growth journey, hiring therapists and coaches, I was able to create a powerful method that will help women like you accelerate your journey and not take as long as I did.
So I created this course to share the exact steps that shorten up the gap so YOU can learn to receive more quickly.
I want you to see this course as a tool that allows you to tap into your feminine energy and create a life of abundance where YOU hold the keys.
You are worthy of EVERYTHING and MORE. It’s time to call it into your life without struggle.
Darling, it is your DIVINE RIGHT TO RECEIVE THE BOUNTY OF THE UNIVERSE!
Paula makes it her mission to share the keys to receiving and having a full, happy life as a woman, and she breaks down everything you need to know to transform your energy and create what you desire… She has taught me so much about how to receive and move through the world, with beauty and love.”
I didn’t feel worthy of receiving in so many areas of my life. I’ve done lots of clearing so far and have realized that I wasn’t allowing myself to be successful in some areas, particularly work, which up until now had been in the masculine world of science. Now, I’m learning to embrace my feminine side in work and at home. It feels amazing!”
With this Power of Receiving course you no longer have to live in scarcity. You no longer have to feel ashamed, guilty, or resentful. Power and abundance is just one click away!
Stop saying, “Who am I to receive?”
Let’s open the channels of receiving and fill your world with
love, beauty, abundance and miracles!
I LOVE the Power of Receiving Course. The program is loaded with content and so many tools but the first thing I received was that stepping into my feminine has extended and enriched my experience and expression in the world and the freedom to choose to move into the feminine and play with my masculine-feminine balance is empowering.”